Joycelyne A. Kinch
August 24, 1950 ~ July 21, 2020
Joycelyne Antonio Kinch, née Gooding, was born on August 24, 1950 to Lionel and Lorna Gooding in Eastlyn, St. George, Barbados. She attended Ellerton Primary School and Christ Church High School.
In 1968, she joined the General Post Office as a stamp seller where she would meet her eventual husband, Henderson “Roy” Kinch and best friend, Hazel “Marcia” Worrell. She sang in the Ellerton Gospel Hall and the Barbados Festival Choir with pride.
A trailblazing and driven young woman, she left her island home in 1972 to emigrate to the United States in search of educational and economic opportunities for herself and for her large and extended family. She and Roy soon married and expanded their family with the births of Michelle in 1975 and Antoine in 1977. She earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Accounting from the State University of New York, Old Westbury and began a long career as an internal auditor in retail and banking institutions, most recently at New York Community Bank.
Myrna, as she was affectionately known, was a woman who took pride in her culinary skills, who rooted for and staunchly defended her family, and who loved The Lord. Her selflessness, devoted caregiving and ability to manage resources came naturally as the eldest of 11. With all the lives that she touched with her good deeds during her journey, we are confident that she left this world a much better place than when she joined it.
After a courageous battle with multiple myeloma, she joined her sister, Yvette; her niece, Andrea and her nephew, Corey with our loving God in eternal peace on July 21, 2020 at Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center In Boston.
Joycelyne is survived by her husband of 45 years, Roy; her children: Michelle Shell and Antoine Kinch and his wife, Shaunté; her grandchildren: Greg Shell, Jr., Amari Kinch, Elijah Shell, Naomi Kinch and Crisette Kinch; her parents: Lionel and Lorna Gooding; her siblings: Santa, Margot, Stephen, Maureen, Richard (Audrey), Maxeen (Atlee), Wendy, Juliette and Sharon Gooding; her brother in law, Richard (Beverly) Kinch; her aunts and uncles: Gwendolyn Clarke, Emelda, Ashley and Anthony Franklyn; and over 20 nieces and nephews. She is a relative of the Greene, Alleyne, Greenidge, Griffin and Gaul families of St. George, Barbados.
In lieu of flowers, contributions in memory of Joycelyne Kinch may be made to Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center’s, Department of Hematology and Oncology at www.bidmc.org/giving or by check made payable to “Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center” with “Dept Hem/Onc” on the memo line and mailed to: Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center, Attn: Sarah Hart, Office of Development, 330 Brookline Ave. (OV), Boston, MA 02215
“A Tribute from Mr Stanton Holder, first cousin of Mr Roy Kinch the husband of the late Mrs Joycelyne Kinch.
I first met Joycelyne during the early 2000’s at the family home in Long-Island, New York. It was during one of Roy’s birthday celebrations. Following a brief Introduction to her, I was able to see some good characteristics in her such as her humility, friendliness, appreciation and open arms in welcoming myself as another family member in her home, and indeed I felt very much at home among such a caring person like Joycelyne.
On each occasion during my many visits to the USA I would also make it my duty to phone Roy and would always ask how was Joycelyne, and would sometimes be privileged to speak with her on the phone.
Since Joycelyne’s illness I was always in contact with Roy and would enquire about her progress, also I did on occasions mentioned her in prayer, however, the Lord has seen it fit to release her from this life to a better one with her Saviour Jesus Christ.
On behalf of the Holders and extended family in the UK/USA/Barbados, I express Sympathy to the Kinch’s and extended family on this sad occasion. I believe Joycelyne is resting in the Lord. God’s peace be with you all.”
“Joycelyne, you reminded me of my own dear Mum so I know how hard your passing will be on your loving family. Thank you for your care and the generosity you showed me on my short stay with you in New York. It was lovely to hear the stories of Barbados. May your sweet soul rest in peace, ”
“A Special Tribute To JOYCELYNE KINCH GOODING
We are two of the many lives that she touched during a short time in her life.
We are sorry for your loss.
We hope our thoughts and prayers will give you comfort and strength. May the constant love of caring friends soften your sadness
May cherished memories bring
you moments of comfort
May lasting peace surrounds your grieving hearts
REST IN PEACE OUR FRIEND”
“It is absolutely true that Joycelyne touched my life. It’s also true that I cannot fully reveal to you, the extent to which she and her family continues to impact my life. Please try to understand, if you can, that her wisdom, her generosity, her love for humanity, her sense of right and wrong, continues to shape my life experience. I first met Joycelyne on my first road trip pioneered by Barry, Tim, Fred, Michael, Dave and Adrian some years before. On this occasion, Ian and I were the rookies, joining the road trip veterans Barry, Fred, and Adrian. We stopped by her home in New York, as was the custom then, to be fed and watered on our way back to Miami from Boston. Believe it or not, on that occasion Roy did the cooking. Perhaps, I should leave it there. Suffice to say, the meal and fellowship, is a moment characterized as a highlight of my life. The food was delicious. Joycelyne’s warm loving embrace was immediate and spontaneous as she welcomed us into her home. It remained that way every time we met, she often sharing words of wisdom and guidance based on her life’s experience and learning. Wisdom and guidance I will always hold dear. Knowing Roy as I do, and having met Antoine and Michelle, and some of her grandchildren, I am confident her light will continue to shine in their living. Rest in peace”
“This is heart-breaking. I know you were worried about her ....but I never knew she was ill. From my family to yours, let me extend my sincere condolences. May she rest in peace. She will be truly missed by all, a gem of a lady......”
“Hello Brother Kinch.Just learnt of Joycelyne’s passing. Lynn and I send our deepest sympathy to you, Michelle, Antoine, and their families. We have lost a dear soul -a “woman” among women. She was a beautiful, kind,and sincere person. She was always nice to me and a lot more people can say the same. I had great love for her. God bless her soul and I know she rests in peace......”
“Rose and I are so sorry and express our greatest condolences to you and family. Your wife was a wonderful person whom we adored. It’s not often one runs across a person like Joycelyne so caring and loving. We will forever cherish her friendship. May she Rest In Peace with the angels on high. ........”
“Dear Roy and Family, It is with profound sadness that I receive this grave news. My deepest sympathy go out to all of you in this time of your big loss. She was a “Class Act” and has always treated me with profound respect and others as far as I know. I have always admired her and will miss her greatly. I remembered her mostly during Hurricane Sandy when she made room and stored my food. May God bless her in Heaven and Let Peace be Still.....”
“Good night Roy......We are indeed at the time of our lives when loved ones leave us or vice versa........For some time now you and Joycelyne have been in my prayers. After you told me that she was undergoing treatment I had hoped that she would be better. And I dreaded hearing of the outcome you expressed. I can only imagine the dept of the pain and sadness that confront you and family. In the midst of it all keep hope alive and draw on that inner strength which you possess. Indeed, it is not easy but there is much solace in the wonderful life and partnership you both shared over the years and the delightful family that you have both nurtured. Blessings! ........”
“My sincere condolences ! I will always remember her hospitality and kindness. Your strength and the love of your children will fortify you in this time of grief. Stay strong!”
“Roy, please accept deepest condolences from my family to yours. You know I will always fondly remember Joycelyne’s wit and reprimands.......
Be strong 💪🏽👍🏾🙏🏾”
“Dear Roy, Please accept my sincerest condolences on the passing of Joycelyne. I will never forget her hospitality when I had the pleasure of being a guest in your home and I will never forget her friendship and support to Velma in her time of need. May she Rest In Peace, and may you and the family be comforted by the wonderful memories and goodness of her ways. Best regards, ”
“My dear friend,
........I hasten to tell you how much it saddens me to read of Joycelyne’s passing. I know this is a void which cannot be filled or replaced, hence on behalf of Candis and myself, I want to wish you.....my friend/brother, and by extension, your entire family, God’s grace and peace throughout your time of grief. My memories of Joycelyne shall be forever etched in the very words enunciated by you.....”With all the lives that she touched with her good deeds during her journey, we are confident that she left this world a much better place than when she joined it.....” May she rest in Eternal Peace and rise Gloriously.”
“I know that words cannot express the pain and grief you and rest of the family are feeling at the loss of Joycelyne but try to find solace and comfort in knowing that each day we live, we are moving to the end of our earthly existence and that she lived a life that we all should be proud of. Stay strong my friend, may she rest in peace and rise in glory.”
“Hi Henderson... I know our interactions were brief, but please accept my deepest condolences for the passing of Joycelyne. Every time we met she was a joy to be around. I enjoyed all of our conversations in no small part to her charm, wit, and grace. I have no doubt she was a wonderful mother to your children and wife to you, and that she left the world a much better place for her presence.
With love,”
“I saddened to hear of the passing of Joycelyne. I am one of those who was touched by her kindness over the years. Our condolences to you and the family, we will keep you all in our prayers. May God blessings shower the family with love and understanding, and may Joycelyne sleep in eternal rest until we meet again. God bless”
“Subhanallah. May she be granted a fragrant and peace filled rest. May she be risen amongst those rewarded for their deeds in this life. May her name be repeated daily amongst those whose prayers are answered. May those who know her keep her in their lives. May her loving smile and voice always be a song to all she touched.
I love you Myrna. 🌹”
“I am saddened to hear about the passing of your wife. I know that it was only about 3 months ago when you announced how proud you and your wife were to see your daughter graduate from the prestigious Harvard University with her PhD. Though she may have passed on, may her love for you, your son and daughter remain deep in your hearts. I pray that the fond memories you have of her will be a source of strength and comfort as you mourn her passing.
May she rest in eternal peace
With deepest sympathy,
Your Boys’Foundation School teammate & friend. ”
“Words cannot express the way we feel about your loss. May God shower you with peace and comfort in the days ahead. Love always, The Jones family.”
“Joycelyne was a gem of a Lady and I am truly saddened to hear of her passing. Those we love don’t go away They walk beside us everyday Unseen, unheard but always near So loved, so missed, so very dear. Sincere Condolences to the Kinch family. May her soul find eternal peace. R.I.P Joyce ”
“As said in Isaiah 41:10:
“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”
We regret that we are not able to be there with you at this time due to worldly circumstances, but we pray that God will give you the strength to carry on during this time of sorrow.
My entire family and I (the Robinsons) here in Mississauga, Toronto, Windsor (Ontario) & Montreal (Quebec), England and Barbados have had a long lasting and enjoyable relationship with Joycelyne, Roy and the entire Kinch family.
This long relationship with the Kinch family, including those in Montreal, goes from back in the days of Barbados from the 1960’S up to this present time. Long before Michelle, rather Dr. Michelle Kinch Shell and Antoine were born.
We understand that time and space do not permit us to say all we would like to say, but there are so many memories of the good/great times together both in Mississauga, Ontario and in Westbury, N.Y.
We will always remember the good times, the fun and the jokes we had and shared at both locations. We remember Joycelyne & Roy making some family vacation trips with Michelle and Antoine up to Toronto, and probably a few times with Casa Blanca Cricket Club. Then on the Sunday or Monday night we would all “hang” by Tyrone aka Sackles or Styles.
I can also recall the parties at Roy’s and Joycelyne’s place with dancing in the backyard, a portion of which was paved for the dancers. And if anyone was not dancing, but was standing on that area, you would hear a loud voice saying “Go off the concrete”.
There was always so much fun and jokes at Powell’s Lane where we would all gather at the house. My family (myself, Marine, Ryan & Shelley) plus the late Mark Clark also called (Chubby or Menzies by close friends) would always be there as well.
Joycelyne would offer Mark a toothbrush and Chubby would ask “Do you need a toothbrush to drink rum?”
There was always so much fun and joy at Powell’s Lane that Joycelyne will be surely missed.
On the behalf of the entire Robinson Family, we send our love and prayers to your family.
Please accept our deepest condolences.
May she rest in peace and rise in glory.”
“Kimoi and I extend our heartfelt sympathies to you. Bereavement is so very personal that only a few of us—unless we have experienced it ourselves—can comprehend its grief. Joycelyne was a very warm and kind friend. Her ever-smiling personality will be greatly missed but will live on forever in our hearts. Her Heavenly Father has called her home but to you her husband, children, parents, sisters and grandchildren, please recognize that you now have your “personal Guardian Angel” watching over you daily until you meet again. Joycelyne, my friend, Rest In Peace and Rise in Glory.”
“To my Dearest Aunty Myrna, As we grieve for you, I would like to pay tribute and honor you as the phenomenal, gentle, kind-hearted, resilient spirit you are. You were more than just an aunt, but the epitome of motherliness and what family truly means. The impact you had on our family cannot be measured by any words that can be written. Your love and support was always felt and we will miss you dearly. As a child, I would always look forward to your summer barbeques, days before my birthday. The laughs, dancing, food and gathering of family and friends were always a perfect end to summer. You were the connective link that kept everyone together while managing to always make everyone feel special in his or her own right. From our talks in the car from the airport to your random visits to the house, I am thankful to have shared so many precious memories with you and we will never forget the good times we’ve shared as a family. Aunty Myrna, you loved, you are loved beyond measure and we celebrate you because you lived. Your love and light will always shine on all of our lives. Your presence and afterglow will forever linger. We thank you. We love you. I pray God keeps you beside him always. Aunty Myrna, may you rest in eternal heavenly peace.”
“On behalf of Pamela Greenidge from Eastlyn, St. George and the Greenidge family in Barbados, please accept our deepest condolences during this sad occasion in the passing of Joycelyne Kinch. We hope God gives you, her close family and friends the fortitude to face this difficult time.”
“Friends, family and well-wishers, Good Afternoon. I remember meeting Joycelyne for the first time in 1980-81. I was playing a cricket game against Casablanca cricket team at Red Hook, as a youngster, I was pretty quick and with movement. I took 6 for 25 in that inning, the only person who had any success against me was Roy Kinch, I remembered he hooked me onto the green door at Red Hook for 6, but we won the game, between innings, I met Joycelyne Kinch, I was introduced to her by Chubby as Keith Gollop stepson, the brother of Cyrene Gollop.
Upon meeting her, my spirit came to her immediately, I felt the honesty and sincerity in her voice an saw it in her face. I don’t know if Roy had anything to do with this, but I could bet Chubby did. Joycelyne asked me upon our next encounter, how did I come to join Empire and why don’t I come and Join Casablanca? She indicated that Casablanca was like a family and I should speak to Cyrene or Keith about the character of the Roy and Chubby, I did and spend over 20 lovely years with Casablanca.
I never knew her employment status, but if you met her and ever spent any time around her, you would have had the pleasure of knowing a person who has made a lot of us present today, the men and woman we are, including her 2 lovely kid Dr. Michelle Shell and Antoine Kinch, the only person who can do that is a teacher, a politician or a member of the clergy and for that Joycelyne, I thank you.
May you Rest in Peace and Rise in Glory. Ladies and Gentlemen, thank you for supporting the Kinch and Gooding families this afternoon and may God blessed each and every one of you.
Thank You.”
“I knew Joycelyne from the very first time she came to the U.S.A.(also our children grew up together)and from that time until her passing her demeanor never changed. She was always mild mannered, kind, quiet ,and a beautiful soul.
She was a very private person and very family oriented. She preferred to do the work behind the scenes letting others take the credit. She stressed the importance of education to her children and was able to enjoy the fruits of her labor to see all this come to fruition. Her legacy will live on in her children and grandchildren. We are forever grateful that she was part of our lives.
The Payne family would like to extend our condolences to Roy ,Michelle ,Antoine and their families. Her parents, brother and sisters.May you be comforted by the words of 1st Thessalonians 4:13-18 which gives hope of seeing your loved ones again.
May her soul Rest in Peace.”
“For as long as I can remember you were in my life. From the Brooklyn days, Get Set, having me tag along to Church Ave to be with your family, apple picking, Christmas Village in PA. I guess I was around so much even Ant nicknamed me “Tag Along”. I was the annoying little Godsister and you made sure Antoine treated me properly. I recall you making the sweetest cou-cou and gravy. Mummy could never understand how you got me to eat it and she made it all the time. So, there was something about the love you put into it. You were a friend to my mother when she lost her best friend and husband, Chubby.
You never pretended to be something you were not, always honest and fun.
Your voice and laughter will be missed. We are truly thankful for the times we had together.
With love,”
“So sad to receive the news. I always remember Aunty with wry humour, lots of love and checking up to make sure I wasn’t squandering any opportunities...... Big love to You, Michelle and Antoine. Xx”
“My prayers and thoughts go out to the family and friends of Joycelyne. Rest in Peace my friend. Deepest sympathy,”
“To Roy , Antoine , Dr Michelle Shell, the Kinch, Gooding and Shell family,
We were quite saddened to hear of the passing away of Joycelyne , mother, wife, sister, gran. Joycelyne possessed many characteristic qualities, a generous , caring ,loving and understanding lady, also reserved. We have met on many occasions. Whether it was in Barbados , the USA, or on a cruise. We can only reflect on such memorable occasions. Sadly , the last time we met face to face was in the month of June 2018 in Barbados, such memories we cherish.
Joycelyne would be sadly missed. We would like to express sympathy and condolence to all of Joycelyne’s family on her sad departure. May her soul rest in peace.
”
“My sincerest condolences to Roy, Michelle, Antoine and the entire Kinch and Gooding Families on the passing of their loved one Joycelyne. May her Souls Rest In Peace and Rise in Glory.”
“I love looking at the picture of Joycelyn with the ocean behind her. The saddest part about leaving us is that she was looking forward to enjoying her retirement in her beloved Barbados. We had plans to buy pots and plant flowers in them to fill up our yards. As you know she had a green thumb and no one loved flowers more than she did, except for me. She was always upbeat. I want you to know her last message to me was, and I quote her. “ Michelle did it”. She was extremely proud of you. You made her happy before she said her final goodbye. Sometimes life punches you in the stomach leaving us to wonder why. I shall miss her but will always hold her memory close in my heart. Sending all the love your heart can hold. Best Wishes to your Dad and the family.”
“On the behalf of the Moore Family of New York and Barbados .We extend heartfelt Condolences to the Kinch and Gooding Families on the passing of your Beloved Joycelyne.We have lost a Loving and Caring lady,May she Rest In Eternal Peace and Rise In Glory. ”
“My condolences to you and your family Roy, I’m so sorry to hear about Joycelyne I know you will miss her deeply.😥😥”
“On behalf of the Harris family condolences and much love”
“On behalf of the King - Barrow family we send our Deepest Sympathy to the Gooding - Kinch family at this most difficult time and may the wonderful memories comfort you through this journey.”
“On the behalf of the Griffin family in New York, I would like to extend my deepest condolences to my relatives in the USA and Barbados. I pray God grant you the strength to get through this time of sorrow. Know that Myrna is in a better place where there’s no more pain or suffering. May she rest in peace. Much LOVE. 🇧🇧🇺🇸”
“Love you, Mrs. Kinch. That smile and your big hugs were always welcome. Rest In Peace.”
“May the loving memories of Joycelyne be forever in your heart and may God grant you peace and comfort during this difficult time. Rest In Peace cousin Joycelyne”
“The prayers and love of the Bethel AME Church Family go out to the entire family of Joycelyne Kinch, especially Roy, Michelle, Antoine, Greg, Jr. , and Elijah. We’re here with you and for you. God bless you.
Pastors Ray and Gloria and all the Bethel Family”
“My condolences to the Kinch family. Joycelyne will be sadly miss gone but not forgotten R.I.P.”
“My deepest condolences to the Kinch family. Joyce you will be missed but never forgotten. It was such a pleasure to have known you.”
“My time spent working with Joycelyne over the years at the Bank was a pleasure. She was always willing and happy to help others, and she was missed by all when she retired. Thoughts and prayers to her family.”
“Condolences to Roy and the entire Kinch family. May Joycelyne Rest in eternal Peace. 🙏❤️”
“My condolences to my dear friend Roy and the Kinch family. May she Rest In Peace. ”
“Our sincere and heartfelt condolences to the Kinch and Gooding families. May the fond memories of her love and kindness keep you strong in faith of one day seeing face to face again. Rest eternally cuz.”
“Our deepest condolences to the Kinch family from the Barker and Coppin family... May her soul Rest In Peace..🙏🏽🙏🏽”
“Our deepest sympathy to the family of Joycelyne. May she rest in peace and rise in glory.”
“Joycelyne had a great Hart and was a dear friend. She was kind a helpful. It was pleasure to work with her.”
“I worked with her at NYCB, she was a pleasure to work with and a lovely person, God rest her soul.”
“My prayers go out to the family. I have known Mrs.K for 14 years through working as Roy Henderson-Kinch’s assistant. Through that time, we would talk on the phone daily. Mrs. K would cook the “BEST SOUP” I ever tasted and also send some for me. I was Blessed to have her share in my Daughter Jacqueline’s Wedding day as we shared stories and laughed. Your family has become mine through your love and kindness! I will truly miss you, Mrs. K!!!”
“Sincere condolences go out to Roy, Michelle, Antoine and their families for the loss of a dear Wife, Mother and Friend. A quiet and reflective demeanor that will remain with us forever. Your earthly work is done and your heavenly work has begun. a Guardian Angel now watching over us all. Rest in peace and rise in glory.
Forever in our hearts,”
“Deepest condolences to the family on this profound loss. My thoughts and prayers at this time. Stay strong and stay close as a family unit. Feed off each others strength and stay whole.”
“Our deepest condolences to the Kinch family. Your precious memories will get you through this difficult time. ”
“Deepest sympathy to a kind lady”
“Condolences to Roy and family. May God comfort you at this time of loss.”
“My sincere condolence to Roy, Michelle , Antoine, and the extended family. Myrna will surely be missed. I pray that God will give you the strength you need at this time. May she rest in peace. ”
“My condolences to the family. Joycelyne will forever be remembered in our thoughts and hearts. Many prayers and blessings to you all during this time. 🕯🙏🕯”
“My deepest condolences goes out to you and your family.”
“Our sincere condolences to Roy, Michelle & Antoine, grand children, parents, family and friends. RIEP and rise in glory.
Joycelyn (Myrna) was a great person, a family friend we met through Roy some almost 40 +years ago. She was so warm, kind and caring. Her smile will forever be remembered. Myrna could cook and her dishes were to die for. You shall me missed by all who came into your life and had that pleasure of your kindness and your hospitality. May Angel’s sing you to your rest.”
“A beautiful heart, with an infectious smile. Two qualities that cannot be refuted; and two qualities that remain in the minds of everyone who came into contact with Joycelyn. May she rest in peace, and rise in eternal glory. To Roy, Michelle, Antoine and the entire Kinch and Gooding families, I extend my sincere condolences at this very difficult time. Rest assured, that God is in the midst of this and will see you through.”
“Joycelyne was a positive, giving woman, as well as a welcoming and charming hostess. We shared many happy moments with both our families. I was impressed with her strength and confidence through what clearly became her ordeal. To Roy and the rest of the family, as well as the extended family, deepest condolences on behalf of Penny and the Yearwood families. Be still and know.”
“I remember holding Naomi, looking at her face and her giving me a smile. Then Mama Kinch smiling at us both. At that moment I could see just how much they favored each other. I shared that with Mama Kinch and when I say she smiled from ear to ear the BIGGEST, prettiest smile! She was so proud! 🥰”
“May cherished memories, the comfort of family, and the sympathy of friends help to console the family in this time of sorrow!”
“Extending sincere sympathy to Roy and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love always.”
“To Roy, our former neighbor, but always a friend, and the entire loving family of Joycelyne Kinch. We extend our sincerest and most heartfelt condolences. We always enjoyed our neighborly sidewalk meetings and the gardening jokes we shared with Joycelyne. She was sincerely warm and caring and brought a smile each time we talked. Rest in peace, our dear friend.”
“Thanks to the Kinch family, for allowing me, Raymond Francis a friend and co-worker of Joycelyn for many years, to be specific since 1988, we both worked at Greenpoint saving bank at that time we were only three blacks that worked in that department, and because of that we stick together and became good friend’s, until her passing, Joyce was very warm and friendly we would have lunch together after lunch we would walk around at stores in Flushing Queen to pass the rest of our lunch time, almost every day that’s what we would do, she was a wonderful friend we would share our heart cry at times when things are not going right especially about the job. I truly miss Joyce as I told her husband that she’s truly a woman of God she always talk about finding comfort in Christ and I know her soul is resting in Jesus, I pray that her family will follow her footsteps by letting Christ be the center of their lives. My heart is hurting, because I miss a ture friend. Be strong family.”
“Rest in peace Kinchie. I am very honored to have met you. I will remember you always. Sincere condolences to Roy and family.”
